There is no single recipe to the game of seduction–every man has his own fantasies and desires. However, there are a few tactics that can ignite a fire and keep it going if you know how to use them. It happens to everyone — sometimes a man is simply not in the mood. In such instances, you can pull out the special weapons to help inspire him and tantalize him. In this article, we will talk about 9 sexy ways you can arouse your man and get him in the mood for some steamy play time.
Treat Him to a Full Body Massage
No one can deny the power of a sensual touch. Tap into the ancient art of massage, and give your man a full body session with your hands. You can use essential oils for a smoother and fragrant experience. As you help him ease the tension built up in his muscles and tissues, you can slightly tease his erogenous zones to set the mood and maybe even finish the massage with a fun and happy ending — wink-wink!
Seize the Power of Pheromones
Let’s face it — we’re biochemical beings and sexual attraction is very much influenced by chemical components. Specifically, pheromones play a part in the sexual relations of all animals. Does that mean you should walk around in sweat and musk? Not necessarily. You can try out pheromone formulations, and pair them alongside bath and body products that have a yummy scent. Try it for yourself, and you will be amazed by the results.
Pull Out That Special Lingerie
Everyone has some kind of sexy lingerie laying there in a drawer just waiting to be used for some special occasion. Well, what better occasion is there than a special night with an extra special man you want to satisfy? Put on your best boudoir attire and perhaps a pair of stilettos to match, and give that man a sight he won’t be able to get out of his mind.
Give Role Play a Shot
Roleplay can be especially fun when you have been seeing someone for a while. Unfortunately, things can get monotonous and the usual bedroom happenings — though it’s great and all — can become a little dull. If this fits your situation, you can explore role-playing in your sex life. It might be personally fun to try out new looks and step out of your comfort zone as well. Dress up like a doctor, nurse, or his favorite fantasy character — explore different outfits that bring out the sexy and playful personality in you — when you have a good time he is more likely to have a good time too.
Step Up Your Sexting Game
This may not be your cup of tea, but what’s the harm in giving it a try? With the right timing and words, you can heat things up and keep him anticipating. Tell him that he’s on your mind, and specify the things that turn you on the most. What would you want to do with him, what makes you burn with desire? Unleash your imagination and send him a naughty text to get those sparks flying!
Get Frisky in Public
They say the forbidden fruit tastes sweeter. Maybe that’s why there’s something about getting naughty in public that’s thrilling to so many. Try out light foreplay or dirty talking in places where “you shouldn’t”. The park, movies — heck, maybe even his office during the day. It’s always a good idea to introduce some sexy fun in ordinary, everyday places and routines.
Let Him Know Exactly What You Want
Sometimes the best way to get in the mood is to talk about it! Have an honest sex talk with your partner and let him know what works for you, what you would want to add to your repertoire, all without sparing any juicy details. Not only will this immensely increase the pleasure you get from sex, but it will also make you feel seen and strengthen your intimacy.
Get Wet–Together
There’s a reason why those music videos with wet t-shirts capture male audiences in a tight grip. Some wet foreplay action is a surefire way to get him in the mood. Ask him to hop in the shower together or have a nice warm bubble bath, and things will unfold naturally. If you have the option, you can also go for a dip in the pool, lake, or the ocean together.
Tease, and Then Tease Some More
Anticipation is key to the game of seduction. Give him a sneak peek into what you’re capable of, and leave him lingering. The higher the tension, the stronger the release. You can get into touch play, use toys and props, or prepare a sexy dance routine just for his eyes. The goal is to get him to a point of anticipation and stop right at that sweet spot.
Get Curious and Explore New Things
We hope that these tips will help you set the stage for a fun, steamy time with the man you desire. Don’t forget that what ultimately makes you feel good and sexy can also help him get in the mood. Try out new experiences, and have fun getting to know each other on a deeper and raw level.
