It is not always easy to arouse surprise, admiration and a feeling of sincere delight in a girl. Listen to the recommendations of experienced psychologists, choose the most suitable options and start preparing a surprise. The lady of the heart will definitely like it, and her eyes will shine with happiness and love. Here is how to surprise a girlfriend.
How to surprise a girl on a first date?
The first date can be the beginning of a strong long-term relationship, so the meeting should leave a bright positive impression. Philosopher, relationship consultant, author John Gray explains in his book Mars and Venus on a Date that a girl experiences special pleasure when a man:
- planned all stages of the meeting;
- knows exactly when, where he will take the lady and what they will do;
- calculated how long it would take to travel and how much money would be enough.
To make the rendezvous bright, memorable and bring a lot of positive emotions to the couple:
- Choose an original meeting place. High-rise roofs, forest glades, art exhibitions and museums, horse farms and other places that match the girl’s hobbies can be interesting options. It is important that the meeting place remains within the bounds of decency and does not cause her anxiety, fear or apprehension.
- Give flowers in an unusual way. Handing them at a meeting is trite. Get creative: hide the bouquet in an interesting place and “accidentally” find it during a walk, or order delivery to her entrance by the end of the rendezvous. Instead of fresh flowers, you can present sweets made in the form of buds.
- Prepare a surprise. A lyrical poem, a paper boat with wishes, a postcard with an invitation to the next meeting, boating or blowing colorful soap bubbles together – a surprise that will become a pleasant accent of the meeting and give a lot of positive emotions.
How to surprise a girl on a date? When preparing a rendezvous, be guided by her views and interests. For example, go rollerblading, go on a horseback ride, go to a match, or take to the skies in a hot air balloon. A woman treats a man with sympathy when she sees that he respects her personal interests.
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How to surprise a girl with a surprise or a gift
A gift is a way to evoke vivid emotional experiences in a beloved and demonstrate a special attitude towards her. Doctor of Humanities, writer Jeronim Gralya in the book “Gift Etiquette” calls the gift and the process of giving a dialogue between the one who gives and the one who accepts the present. He explains that even a modest inexpensive gift, if chosen with love and presented in an original way, has a chance to become important and be remembered for a long time.
How to surprise a girl with a gift? Here are the original options:
- Create a quest. Hide the gift in a secluded place. Make a plan on a piece of paper, where you write riddle tasks that will show the way to the next stop. Choose fun, funny and easy tasks. Give the lady the first riddle and tell her that a prize awaits her at the end of the path. Help overcome the path to victory, encourage her, hint at the right decisions.
- Put the gift in a matryoshka box. Prepare several colorful boxes, where each smaller one goes into a larger one. Put a gift in the smallest of them. On each cover, write a wish or a task (kiss me, say an affectionate name, listen to 5 compliments, etc.).
- Set off a holiday explosion. Wrap your gift in a special balloon filled with sparkles, confetti, streamers, small hearts and other festive tinsel. Hand it to the girl and offer to arrange a festive “fireworks”. To make it more interesting, add other balloons with confessions, affectionate words to the balloon with a gift, and offer to look for a surprise.
How to surprise a girl on the Internet?
Thanks to the Internet, people can communicate without restrictions. Even if the lady of the heart is nearby, and not at a distance of a thousand miles, a man can arrange small online surprises that are sure to cause positive emotions:
- Change the girl’s opinion of yourself. Social networks will help with this. Post a photo on the page that characterizes you from an unusual side for her. These can be photos taken in the theater, while skydiving, flying in a hot air balloon, or while painting a picture. Show yourself from a side unfamiliar to her.
- Start an online diary. It is easy to create on free online platforms. Devote a page in your diary to your beloved: post a beautiful poem, add her favorite song, write about her hobbies, choose a beautiful photo. When the page is ready, send your favorite link so she can see how much you like.
- Use language transitions in the dialogue. When communicating, include phrases in English, French, Italian in the dialogue. To find out what the message is about, the girl will have to find a translation. This style of conversation will intrigue the interlocutor and arouse interest.
- Make and send a collage. Using a simple free program, every man can make an original collage of joint videos and photos. Connect everything, make interesting captions for the images and send it to the lady.
- Write and send a long love letter. Tell her how precious she is and how much she means to you.
- Buy an advertising banner on the Web that only she will see, and place on it a love poem, a confession, an invitation to dinner, or just a message with kind words and wishes.
How to surprise a girl on the anniversary of a relationship?
Of course, an anniversary gift is of great importance. But no less important is how to present it in order to evoke a sense of celebration in the girl. Here are tips on how to arrange a special day that will surprise and delight any woman:
- Prepare a delicious and beautiful breakfast. Any dish decorated in love symbols will do.
- Book a table in advance (if you want to go to a restaurant), buy tickets for a concert, a theater, a master class (choose an event in accordance with your beloved’s hobbies).
- Visit the SPA together, do the procedures that the girl chooses.
- Do what she wanted, but you didn’t agree. For example, go scuba diving, go rollerblading, or make a clay pot.
- Take the lady for a walk along your favorite places and routes. Lay out love notes, small cute gifts, flowers along the way. Order and place advertising banners with congratulations and wishes along the way.
- Organize a flash mob. An interesting dance of strangers specially prepared for a woman to her favorite song will cause a real storm of delight.
- Prepare a surprise party.
During the day, be romantic and considerate. As writer Allan Pease writes in The Language of Man-Woman Relationships, a man does not understand the importance of such gestures as inviting to a dance, offering flowers, or preparing a festive dinner. But for a woman, the romance of courtship is the most important part of a relationship, no matter how many anniversaries pass.
Pamper and delight your loved ones in an original way. Choose one of the proposed options or come up with a unique way to surprise a girl. She will definitely appreciate the efforts and bestow care, attention and love.
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